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It all starts with



Reclaim Your Life & Break Free From Abuse.

Information, advice and Soar High courses designed to help you understand ABUSE and EMPOWER YOU to take control of

YOUR life again.





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Break Free from Abusive  Relationship

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Mental and
Physical Freedom

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Change direction and thrive free from abuse  forever

YOU can Remove Toxic Emotions
and Limiting Beliefs 

Release & Empower Yourself to Start Healing Today

What you learned you can UN-learn

No one should genuinely feel the cultural trauma and the everlasting shame of continuous abuse. I felt disconcerted, distraught and helpless. Deep down, you know the person abusing you is wrong, and that they’re are abusing you as their choice, yes their abuse is a choice, why? Because they do not abuse their boss, it is as simple as that. I instantly get that you cannot obtain the power within yourself to leave and you may challenge yourself that you can’t abandon them.  I diligently did and so can you. Do not let the self-doubt implanted in your conscious mind as a part of the abuse remain with your minds thinking, you are way stronger than you were led to believe.

I sincerely believed because I was connected and was the mother to his children I needed to remains with him, yet he was someone who was vanquishing me, and I’m here to tell you that it’s not your fault. His deliberate choice to oppress me was invariably not my choice. I also know that we do not go out of our way to marry abusers. Abusers do know how to offer roses to blind-side us to their true being, you will never be presented with the true self from an abuser upon meeting them for the first time.

I’ve endured abuse in many different forms in relationships. I can guide you to break free from abusive toxic relationships and even how to break free from toxic family as well, I did and I know you can too.

It’s time to release yourself from the abuse you endured, regain control of your life and Thrive in order to Soar so High so that you will never have abuse of any way or form in your life again.

Allow me to help you into your new self and your new life your way.

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Escape Any Type of Toxic Relationships Once and For All

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Break Through Any Past Traumas Holding You Back

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Identify and Avoid Abusive

Personalities in the Future

True relationships are not abuse.
You're life is not meant to survive, you are meant to thrive!

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You are allowed to live your life your way. You are allowed to choose to create anything in your life, no one has the right to take that away from you, because that is abuse. If someone makes negative abusive judgements on anything in your life, then know that is abuse in a different form,,  just remove these people from your life straight away.

Weights never make you fly, so you can Soar High.

Never give up on your true choices in your life, just because these abusive people gave up on theirs & live in fear of theirs, this dose not mean you need to.

If you choose to lie with dogs, you will get fleas.

Here's  some of WHAT You'll LEARN...

“Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.”– Soren Kierkegaard

Three Months.

  • Understanding abuse and the effects is has on you.

  • Addressing patterns of abuse.

  • Owning your life.

  • Getting unstuck.

  • Developing a framework for change.

  • Learning to turn your Negative self talk around.

Six Months.

  • Catching your own Critic

  • Understanding that your thoughts and feelings aren't always real. 

  • Contain Your Negativity

  • Give your Critic a Nickname 

  • Change Negativity to Neutrality.

  • Cross-Examine Your Inner Critic

  • Think Like a Friend

Twelve Months.

  • Giving you the Tools to dedicate ample time every day to self-care.

  • How to have an enlightened mind and how to suspend self-judgement's teaching you that your enlightened mind experiences life with an open mind, free of any expectations of what it ‘should’ be to yourself and others.

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“The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it.”
– Henry Ford

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